tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5916126436692978523.post4044899764511748292..comments2023-05-17T00:54:59.914-07:00Comments on Survive, Live, Thrive: Just keep swimming, OR how NOT to cope with Exie’s crap that he places on your childJane Thrivehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06937944153368197294noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5916126436692978523.post-64423217937035773232014-06-25T06:47:11.373-07:002014-06-25T06:47:11.373-07:00You've written this post in my voice. I have ...You've written this post in my voice. I have similar issues with my ex - and our schedule (we have kids on same days opposite weeks) means that any weekly activities have to be done jointly. He's made even the registration process so difficult that I've said unless he cooperates - no more joint activities. And I've stuck to it. So now I find activities where price point isn't so high that the kids still get to participate once every two weeks, in activities that it's OK if they miss every other week. I feel bad for the kids - but it's soo much less stress. I've been thinking about blogging about it - but haven't got there yet. Looks like you beat me to it. You're right though - keep your husband out of it, de-escalate. You're doing the right things. Even if it doesn't feel like it sometimes.LIVhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13524453327563312809noreply@blogger.com