What
a week end before Christmas! We are so
excited to celebrate the holidays—with our pals and our annual Christmas cookie
baking—recipe passed down from my mom and her mom, along with their home made
icing recipe. The Christmas cookies aren’t
just any type of Christmas cookies—they have a touch of vanilla and lemon which
sets them apart. We also bake what we
call “margerites”—which I pre make before the girls arrive; one of big sis’ BFF
looks forward to eating them every year--they’re these bite-sized oatmeal,
brown sugar min-muffin goodnesses with chopped pecans. I have vivid memories of eating them every
Christmas with my mom, polishing off almost a complete batch; and now big sis’
BFF does the same.
After
we exhaust ourselves rolling out the dough, cutting out the cookies, baking,
then icing and sprinkling, I order pizza in and then we all settle down for our
annual Christmas movie watching with the lights down and using an LCD projector
that spreads the picture on the wall.
Our faves:
How
the Grinch Stole Christmas (the 1966 cartoon version)
Mickey’s
Christmas Carol (also animated, 1983 version)
And
the feature pick this year—Home Alone
(I
realized that I hadn’t seen Home Alone from start to finish and thought it was
pretty funny! The annual feature rotates—last
year it was the Polar Express which was a little weird, and honestly can’t remember
the feature picks from years before, lol!)
At
any rate, as the girls get older, I’m seeing different age related changes,
i.e. big sis and friends politely asked me to put on K-pop instead of playing
Christmas carols (ahhh! Tweendom is here!)!
I relented, but only after we compromised that while little sis and her
friend were in the room we’d play holiday music, so I could (in their words)
imprint Christmas music onto their souls.
Big sis and friends hardly need any supervision—I can just give them
some dough and a rolling pin and they’re off and running; I can focus on the
littles, helping them roll and cut out and carefully transferring cut outs to
the pan without beheading angels or mangling up stars (which I don’t actually
mind, but they insisted on “not killing” the angels).
The
following morning, we made pretzels dipped in white chocolate and sprinkles
galore (so to use the leftover cookie sprinkles)…and oh how many sprinkles were
all over the house! I then put on a Netflix
movie so they could chill out before being picked up, and found a silly holiday
gem of a movie called The Christmas
Chronicles. Kurt Russel as St. Nick
and a surprise appearance of Goldie Hawn as Mrs. Claus at the end! This may be our feature pick for next year.
One
advantage of big sister and her pals getting older is that they can help with
all the cleaning, big sis even vacuumed!
After
everyone left, the girls and I took a power nap, because we had plans to go see
Mary Poppins Returns with our pals we’ve known since the girls were literally
in the belly. (One of my BFFs and I met
at pregnant lady yoga in what seems like a million years ago.) Big sis declared that while this was a good
movie, the ORIGINAL was STILL the best.
(I liked Mary Poppins Returns—it made me nostalgic for the original Mary
Poppins in the very BEST way).
On
the way home, the Christmas music loud and proud in the car, the holiday neighborhood
lights blinking and glowing all around us, I realized that the girls were
singing along to every song that came on.
I think my heart grew so much it was about to burst. Bing Crosby's The Little Drummer Boy. Bruce Springsteen's Santa Claus is coming to town (belting it out like we were at a rock concert). Holly Jolly Christmas. Do you Hear what I Hear. Do They Know it's Christmas. Just to name a few. Please let them remember and hold in their
hearts these small happy moments in time.
A
friend of mind posted that if she could have but one Christmas wish, it would
be to wake up on Christmas morning to see her mother and father standing by the
tree (they passed on years ago). I realized
I could have the very same wish. I would
be torn though, and I think my mom would understand, if I spent my one precious
Christmas wish on my daughters—that they will always feel my love for them, no
matter where they are, no matter when, no matter what.
Wouldn’t
it be lovely if could have more than one Christmas wish? Let’s make our wishes come true, somehow, at
least the ones that are created from love.
Merry
Christmas to all, and to all a good night.
What beautiful traditions and wonderful memory making. 💗
ReplyDeleteThank you so much, Jessica! <3 I'm trying. This year was so hard because of my grief, but I managed to pull it of... <3 Love to you and thank you for stopping by! <3 <3 <3
DeleteWhat wonderful memories you're making with your girls, Jane. Loved all of this. the images you've written are now dancing in my head. Love the idea of Christmas movie night, too. May all your wishes come true, my friend. Sending hugs your way!
ReplyDeleteThank you, thank you, Lisa! Love and hugs and happy happy holidays to you, too!! (a bit late) LOL i'm so thankful we found each other in the world! <3
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