Wednesday, March 25, 2015

Child support modification, take 2

Turns out he did request for a modification--based on what I have no idea.

I had 10 days to get my information in, and even though I got it in within 9, because they didn't input it into the system, I now have to request for a hearing.  Somehow, they calculated childcare to be $0.0.  And his CS was reduced $500/month.

So now I have to go face him in court.  Again.

I feel sick.

I can't believe it.

I guess what's really making me cry right now is that I gathered all the information and thought it would be taken care of.  Within the time frame.  In fact, one day ahead.  But it didn't matter.  It's already in the proposal stage, so now I have to go to a hearing.

I'm just so tired of his game playing shit.

So much for giving him the benefit of the doubt!


  1. OMG, Jane I'm so sorry for this. Sounds like your lawyer may have dropped the ball? Maybe not, I don't mean to point fingers but sheesh isn't that what we have them for? To avoid this kind of scenario. Sending you a big hug! You'll get it back.

    1. Thank you, Lisa! :( Yes, my attorney is looking at this now. I'm considering just sending her so I don't have to face him in another adversarial setting...I know it would cost $$, but what peace of mind to not have to face him in another hearing. :( :( :(