Monday, March 2, 2015


I feel like I’m in the calm period, waiting for the storm to hit.  The legal letter writing solved a few things.  1) it’s okay for DD1 to be in ballet, he has to take her to rehearsals that happen on his time—and after the letter writing, he is.  check.  2) It’s okay for DD2 to be in gymnastics, he has to take her there, too.  Check.  3) It’s okay for me to think about private school for the girls, as long as I pay for it.  Check.  4) he has to reimburse on the copays and do it on a timely basis.  He’s doing it—bringing things current from 2013.  Check.

Wish it would have been easier to get all these things done without hiring an attorney, but then again, I have to take what I can get, right?


  1. Glad to hear it! Today I found a swim program that will take mine every two weeks...progress.

    1. Woo hoo!! Good luck with swimming, yay!! And thank you!!

  2. Well way to go, Jane! With these personality types they only respond to legal letters and action, unfortunately. Take a deep breath and enjoy the calm. You deserve it. :)